When she moved from Idaho to Las Vegas, fitness wasn’t exactly on her mind. As a mom of three, her days revolved around caring for others — her kids, her family, her home. But one invitation to a fitness class shifted everything.

At first, the workouts were tough. Her body resisted. “I was like, what are you doing to me?” she laughs. But then something clicked. She began arriving early, excited for class, and for the first time in years, she was making time just for herself.

“I had always been a caretaker,” she reflects. “But this was new — carving out a little pocket of time just for me.”

That small shift opened the door to Pilates — and it turned into so much more than a workout.


Pilates as a Path to Balance

Unlike the pressure-driven intensity of weightlifting or traditional gym routines, Pilates offered something different: fluidity, breath, and connection.

“The center of Pilates is breath and body to mind,” she explains. “You can be really fluid and in flow with your body, instead of just chasing reps or bigger weights.”

It wasn’t about looking ripped or meeting external standards. Pilates was about building strength from within, restoring balance, and developing body awareness. It became a way of reclaiming energy and identity.

And with that came joy. Playfulness. Laughter. Even the occasional arm-wrestle challenge with a friend. Pilates wasn’t just a discipline — it was a practice that reconnected her with her body and her sense of fun.


Mindfulness in Movement

As her practice deepened, she noticed something else: Pilates was transforming her mentally.

By focusing on alignment, balance, and flow on the mat, she was also training her brain to handle stress and stay present. “It’s like building new neural pathways,” she explains. “You’re teaching yourself to return to your center, not just physically but mentally.”

And when play and joy are part of the process, she says, growth happens even faster.

Pilates became more than exercise — it became a form of mindfulness. A daily reminder to pause, breathe, and come back to the present moment.


The Power of Self-Evaluation

Now, as a Pilates, kettlebell, and yin yoga teacher, she carries those lessons into her classes. For her, discipline matters — but flexibility matters more.

Some days call for intensity. Other days, rest is the wiser choice. The key, she says, is honest daily check-ins:

“Ask yourself, What do I have today? Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. Just today.”

By listening and adjusting, she avoids burnout while keeping her practice sustainable. It’s about alignment — not perfection.

She also emphasizes the role of community. Teaching has shown her how powerful it is to share energy, stories, and feedback with others. That back-and-forth creates what she calls synergy — a cycle of growth and inspiration that flows both ways between teacher and student.


Three Lessons to Take Off the Mat

Her journey offers wisdom not just for Pilates, but for life:

  1. Have fun. Play and laughter keep things light and sustainable.

  2. Breathe with intention. Your breath is a powerful tool for focus and calm.

  3. Choose your environment wisely. Surround yourself with supportive people and spaces that lift you up.

“It’s about balance,” she says. “Not being perfect every day, but staying present, consistent, and kind to yourself.”


A Journey of Self-Care and Strength

What began as a reluctant step into fitness turned into a transformative journey of self-discovery. Pilates taught her that strength isn’t just physical — it’s also mental and emotional.

It taught her that growth doesn’t come from rigidity, but from fluidity. That mindfulness can live in movement. And that taking time for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s essential.

👉 Takeaway: Pilates is more than a workout. It’s a practice of presence, adaptability, and joy — one that can transform not just your body, but your entire way of being.

Gabriella Forte